Category: Let's talk
One of the things that draws the most attention to a girl is her boobs. It doesn't matter whether they're small enough for people to go around calling them mosquito-bites, or big enough for people to be going around saying they should have their own street address. Some girls love the attention when people say, "Wow, your rack is huge!" or "Oh, your boobs fit your figure quite well." Other girls hate it when they get called flat-chested or when all guys do when they talk to them is stare at their boobs instead of concentrate on the words they're saying.
And here, we resort to the phrase again: There are pros and cons, and advantages and disadvantages to everything. A lot of girls with big boobs probably feel bad when they can't do certain exercises without getting slapped in the face with their very own cleavage, or when they feel that terrible pain on their back and shoulders from hauling melons around all day. And smaller girls may feel bad when they think they aren't being noticed as much as the other girls because their boobs are barely noticeable.
Clothes are an issue too. Girls with bigger chests have to find some way to keep their cleavage confined and under control, and find themselves unable to get away with tank tops, tube tops, and shirts with low necklines. And some smaller girls may like to wear shirts that aren't so loose and baggy around the chest area.
And shopping for bras is a pain! Under-wires are annoying as hell, and why is it so damn hard to find a bra without padding? If there is anything I hate, it's padding. If my boobs needed to look bigger, they would be bigger. Now wouldn't they? And for women that are bigger than a d, or maybe even a dd, bras are just hard to find.
While big-breasted women may find that their boobs get in the way a lot, they may find them beautiful. And while girls with smaller boobs may find themselves being able to get away with wearing no bra, they may feel that their boobs are not big enough, or as big as other girls' boobs in their age group.
What do you like about your boobs? What don't you like about them? Why do you think it's hard for girls with varying breast sizes to be satisfied with their boobs? Why do you think that many girls with smaller boobs want bigger boobs?
I know one factor that plays a role in this is that young women see so many hot actresses on TV and magazine covers that have bigger breasts. Girls always hear boys making positive comments about girls with huge racks, and always see boys drawing pictures of girls with cannon balls for boobs. And companies that make bras are mostly run by men who think that women of any size will always want bigger boobs.
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I don't mind my boobs. They give me sexual pleasure, feed my babies (which is what they're intended for), and they're just... Boobs. I think a lot of women have boob issues because some women are just unhappy about everything. There's always a grass-is-greener approach to life; especially with women.
Well, at the moment I don't have any boobies to speak of but when I do have some around I am not really that picky about them. I really don't care if they are small or big all sizes seem to have there desired effect and all the sighted women are probably pretty relieved with me not being able to see, hence I don't stare at them! I do have to say, boobies end up in the funniest places, wy just yesterday I was trying to open a door for a young lady and there where the door nob should have been was a boob.
Shawn, lmaoooooooooooo! Fuckin' hilarious. I agree though. Sometimes they are in the strangest places.
I must say that my boobs are really small, and for awhile I was very uncomfortable with them because I felt that they weren't big enough. I used to want bras with as much padding as possible. But of course, I learned to love my boobs and I think they're amazing!
damn, shawn, what the fuck? i wish i was the one that touched the booby instead of the doorknob. my boobies are so damn small. i want big boobies! but my mom has dd boobs so i bet mine will eventually get big.
Why do so many girls wish for huge boobs? Do y'all never think of the medical conditions they cause? You can't even begin to imagine the pain that they cause so many people. I personally know people who have developed back problems due to the size of their breasts, and in fact, they have caused so many medical issues, that health insurance will cover to get a reduction.
I can see why a very small chested girl would want to have a little more, but to want to be a D or double D? Come on!
I've met so many women who believe men all want a woman with large breasts, and so wish they were larger. I just wan to say, we don't all want women with big boobs, it's not that important an issue. I'm sure we all have our preferences, like with everything else.
I am luckily not expected to wear a bra, and so don't know the trouble caused by differing types, though I believe that unless you're a small breasted person, no matter how much a pain under wire is, it's there to help prevent them starting their trip south as gravity will one day be their downfall. lol
lol, my bf calls my boobs pillows they're so big, but I find it kind of funny so I don't really mind, lol. I haven't had back problems with mine, yet, although I'm not ashamed to admit, I'm a 38 double D bra size, lol.
Jen.
I love my boobies. They're not huge or small, and I think they're just perfect for my size. But women always want something different, something they don't have. We seek perfection! And I hate padded bras too.
Boobies, yum! what a subject to wake up too!
I don't really think gravity plays as big of a roll as some of you might think, granted I don't have any of my own to come from any personal experience. but I have noticed in my travels that child birth usually plays more of a roll than gravity.
I've "seen" or "felt" some on women that were a little older and those who didn't have children were still just as perky as a 3 week old puppy! weight does play a part in that too, medium to slender builds with big bomb shells and no children usually don't head down to the floor either.
There is such a thing as others have said where they are way way too big and let me also say that I am firmly against fake boobies, I'm not all that interested in playing with rubber and that is what it feels like, granted I do understand some reasons for getting them if you are flat as a board, but still!
now, off to that shower! lol
Shawn
I wish mine were a bit smaller. I've had mine called pillows too. LOL
ooo. boobies! boobies! those are my sexy pillows.
I love girls with mbbs's. (member of bigger boobies' society).
but the taste differs from person to person, you know.
Raaj.
Mine are average size. I've never wanted huge ones because I don't want them sagging down to my knees when I get old. I exercise to try to keep them firm but have never understood women who want huge ones or go through enhancement surgery to have huge fake ones. However, I can understand people who get breast reduction surgery. I think I would do that if I felt I needed it.
Nice topic to put on the boards. I agree with poster 9. My boobs are just right for me. Its not big or small, but I still look perfect with it. Yes, paddings can be a pain sometimes. But seriously, I don't agree with breast enlargements. Why is it harder for some girls to be contented with how they look like? In the long run, its not going to matter whether you have big or small boobs. Well, like the previous posters stated, everyone has different preferences as to what they percieve as attractive. One advice for those girls that want to change a lot of things about themselves including their breat size. Love yourself first. I know some times having small breasts makes some girls feel insecure, but hey, its not about what guys think of your breasts or what the media wants you to look like, its about what you think about yourself that counts.
Firstly, Anna my dear, because you're only thirteen, as for growing anywhere, you've got quite a ways to go before you're fully developed.
And Shawn, you're totally right concerning the change in breasts over time. Gravity has nothing to do with it. It all just depends on weight, childbirth, genetics, and how you care for your physical health.
I totally would never want any bra size above a medium c. My sister is a triple d and complains about her back and shoulders a lot. She can't even stand up straight. Well, she can, but she doesn't because it's more stress on her back and shoulders. So when she stands, she's just a tad slouched.
It took me a long time to learn to love my boobs. But I always told myself that I could be completely flat-chested, and that I ought to be thankful for what I have, or don't have. I would much rather be the size I am than close to my older sister's size. That's just too much cleavage!
as for post 15 girls group at different rates there....
Ladies, you are so much luckier then we were back in the day. I would have loved to have been a part of a topic like this when I was in my teens to early twenties.
As a blind person, I never have been sure where I fall on the boob size ometer. Obviously I'm not going to go up to other women and compare mine with theirs via touch. Gack!!!!! I don't need that picture in my mine!!!!
As some movie actress, I think Sophia Lauren, once said the sexiest thing about a woman is a good self image. That means she's at peace with her body mind and spirit.
I've asked former boy friends and my husband where I fall and I get "you're ok." so hey if that's cool with them, it's fine with me.
Consider that dissatisfaction with ourselves buys stuff. If we choose to not like our boobs or any other part of ourselves, then we buy remedies which purport to improve the situation. "When I see the hot nubile women on commercials, I must Remember the people on tv selling wonderbras don't give a hot flying flip about me or any negative body immage issues I may have. They just want to sell product and get an overinflated, whoops pardon the pun, paycheck. If we want to help out, that's fine. It's much cheaper to like ourselves. Sometimes, it's fun to fantasize and make ourselves out to be a different person.
Oh yes, as for breast augmentation. Here are two points of view. My 20 year old son says "I can tell a boob job a mile off. I don't like them. Why would I want to date a girl who hates the design god gave her so much that she must install inferior parts? Also why would she want to waste that much money?" Of course his lovely wife has a beautiful figure and it's all hers.
The only time I think augmentation is necessary is after partial or radical mastectomy. My stepmom had a double radical and she said that having the implantation helped so much with her image as she was going through all the nastiness of treatment.
What a wonderful and healthy discussion.
And to think, I had always thought that boobies were just bees who made milk instead of honey.
Buzz buzz buz
Wow Alex! Lmaoooooo!
Holly, your son is so right.
Also, breast augmentation is never a good resort for women who plan on mothering and breast feeding.
I say if you want bigger boobs, start taking birth control. jkjkjk
More than a handfull is a waste. thank you very much. I'm perfectly happy with my shape and size. I'd have to say the only thing that sucks about boobs is the possibility of breast cancer.
You don't have to have boobs to get breast cancer. Men are also sometimes sufferers of breast cancer, though thankfully not as often as women, but it's something many men don't seem to be aware of, and really should be.
I was just going to say that ...
I'm happy with my breast size. My goodness. Boobies? we're not children here ...
Some of us aren't children, but I don't think you should speak for all. lol
And as for poster twenty, isn't that what sucks about all body parts? Can't you get cancer in your eyes, mouth, colon, bladder, brain, legs, arms, blood, and bones?
You know, I've heard somewhere before that some women get their ovaries removed to avoid ovarian cancer. Wow, 'cause that's a safeguard to all possible health problems, right?
pretty extreme.
i'm one of those crazy women who had their ovaries removed because of fear of ovarian cancer. My mom died of that and let me tell you, that is a horrible horrible way to check out. Since she got it before 65, there was a high probability that I'd received that lovely gift from her. So, as I had other issues in that area which I won't bore you with, when they did the hysterectomy I just said "rip it all out please and thank you so very much." You can still get it by the way, as in some cases cells are left but the probability is minute in comparison with keeping the useless things.
I have to say that while I would never consider breast implants, I'm one of those people who frowns down at, "the girls" as Geri Ryan calls them. Only because one is so much more noticeably bigger than the other. At least to me. Wearing a bra is almost frustrating, because I can't seem to find one that is satisfactory.One side is bulging and the other side has lots of room to spare.
My sister on the other hand, has constantly bemoaned the fact that she has a small bust size. She also says now that she is over having children, she really is considering it. I don't quite agree with her, but if that's what she wants, then go for it. I just like to remind her to make sure she knows all the facts before she goes trough with it. I once had a classmate who did a presentation on implants. It was a great presentation only because she had actually gone through the procedure and was telling us all the facts that you don't get to hear from the doctor or other informational items.
I also wanted to say really quick in regards to the removal of ovaries... I heard somewhere that detecting this type of cancer is the hardest. By the time you realize it, it's too late. So I don't think I'd blame anyone for taking them out.
Bookbug
Yes, while one can get cancer in just about every part of the body, we, were, specifically discussing breasts, were we not?
Bookbug
Have you thought of trying out chicken fillets to even up the bra size? Get it to fit the bigger boobie, then stick what's called a T-Shirt filler in the other side to make things the same size. If you're prepared to pay about £30, you can get some really nice, skin-feel silacon ones that sit really well.
FM
I had an ex, back in the day who had those rubbery bra insurt things. She got them for what ever reason, I mean she wasn't huge but she wasn't ant bites either. My question was what are you going to do when your shirt and bra hit the floor? grin
Shawn, lol!
Holly, I can totally understand if any kind of cancer runs in the family, or if a person has gone through cancer in the past and wants to avoid another kind of cancer. But my point is that people shouldn't just get something removed just because the possibility of cancer exists. But I do understand that ovarian cancer may be harder to detect.